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“Dr. Bathurst is magic. She identifies the root of the problem and uses a mix of different tools to resolve it quickly. I have no hesitation in naming Dr. Bathurst the best coach I have ever worked with.”
- Andrew T.
Andrew was emotionally exhausted and intimately distant from his partner trying to figure out how to repair resentment in their relationship. He dreamed of a life filled with communication rather than conflict, a cohesive family and fulfilling, passionate sex, but he didn’t know how to release the negative energy of past pain moments and how to gain clarity on the future of his romantic relationship.
He leveraged our 4-step system to reform negative energy within himself and his relationship into positive, fulfilling energy. Now he’s repaired his relationship, oozing with happiness and lives a life of passion...

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So, Who Is This For?

So, Who Is This For?
- Individuals who want…
- to improve their mental health
- to improve themselves as a partner
- to learn relationship patterns to become healthier
- education on relationship contracts, resentment repair
- Partners who want (couples or multi-person)…
- to level-up their relationship
- to transition into consensual non-monogamy
- to improve communication, intimacy, connection
- to enhance sexual fulfillment
- Those who are 100% invested in their own change process
- Clients looking for a mix of individual AND couple coaching
- Clients prepared for discomfort, challenge and accountability
- Anyone looking to enhance their quality of life and relationship

You’re our Perfect Client if you Want Better Intimacy, Communication and Connection…
- You and your partner(s) have limited to no physical or sexual intimacy and feel like “roommates”
- Don’t know how to move forward with certain blockages in intimacy, conversation or future vision with one another
- You feel unheard, unseen and lonely in your relationship
- You want to level-up your relationship (Yes!)
- To rekindle that spark :)
- Believe there has to be more to life and relationships than what you have
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Are satisfied with your communication most of the time, but need the occasional floods of anger, miscommunication, coldness to stop because it feels too painful to keep healing from
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Feel like you and your partner(s) are together but not really ‘engaged’ enough for it to be fulfilling
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Have commitment in the relationship but very low trust
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Would benefit from having someone who can help you stay accountable for the change needed to strengthen your relationship
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Have tried other methods of connection / healing but they haven’t been effective: books, workbooks, seminars, traditional therapy
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Are ready to explore and experience other forms of intimacy in relationships
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Feel stuck in being able to release that pain of infidelity or betrayal and are finally ready to move forward
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Learn the research and fundamentals of what makes relationships last so that you can become your own healer
Discovery Call:
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Who Is This NOT For?

This program may not be fitted for those who:
- Expect their partner to change without themselves changing
- Do the research but never take action to improve their relationships
- Have active infidelity, abuse or addiction that they aren’t willing to repair
- Expect high yield with low effort

The REAL Reason
You Haven’t Had Success (Yet)

Achieving intense intimacy and healthy connection requires 3 essential ingredients:
1) Proven process to follow
2) Professionally Licensed and World-Renowned Therapist / Coaches and
3) Community to inspire and motivate you
Here’s why other programs never work for people like you:
- They only work with individuals, instead of focusing on the whole system and working with couples together. This broken and disjointed approach never gets to the root of the problem [which you’ll discover when you go through our steps].
- They rarely give you clear feedback, and step-by-step direction, so you’re left with theory that you don’t know how to put into practice for actual, lasting change.
- They only focus on 1-2 forms of intimacy rather than our program that gives you specific instructions and activities on all 8 intimacy forms.
- They vaguely describe where their methods come from and what results they have, instead of using peer-reviewed, evidence-based practices that are proven to work.
- They don’t provide accountability. You get a bunch of pre-recorded videos without anybody checking in to make sure you’re taking action and getting results.
We are the only Hybrid-Relationship Coaching program dedicated to solving these exact problems for people like you. In addition, we provide an array of heart-centered experts to coach, monitor, and mentor you every step of the way.
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About Bathurst Therapy

I’m Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, a world-renowned Sexologist, Marriage Therapist, Life Coach and Holistic Healer and recipient of the TOP Doctor Award in 3 US states. As subject matter expert in the fields of Sex and Relationships, I can be found on podcasts and journals such as Giddy and Spotify.
I apply my licenses and certifications in psychology, sexology and integrative medicine into a bite-sized form that clients can apply to their lives directly to create a better world; one relationship at a time.
Many therapists focus on one specific problem in one particular area of a client’s life. I’ve found this approach ineffective at treating the whole relationship. Instead, I apply a systemic, holistic process, which integrates many evidence-based techniques with step-by-step instruction and accountability for rapid change.
With overflowing positive feedback, I created a 4-step process called the FLOW™ Formula. In 90 days, it drastically improves the mood of individual partners, re-energizes dull and lifeless relationships and reconnects intimacy and communication back into the larger system.
I offer VIP packages, hybrid self-study courses, and 1-1 intensive sessions to individuals and relationships.

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Discover the 4 Simple Steps To Improve 8 Forms of Intimacy, Achieve Sexual Synchrony, & Heal Past Wounds


According to the University of Scranton, 92% of people NEVER hit their goals.
Why?
Because their goals aren’t specific nor challenging enough.
Think about that...
Most romantic partners blindly jump into relationship programswithout the right goals (or teachers) to guide them.
It’s like trying to fly a plane without going to pilot’s school.
Their lack of specific, actionable goals never gets them the energy flow they want. Instead, they waste years on awareness of the problem without knowing how to fix it OR they waste years making changes that don’t focus on the actual problem.
That’s why you need to set goals that get to the root of the problem to experience a state of SYNERGISTIC FLOW™ with your partner(s). Anything else simply won’t do.
Goals that help you:
- Start at the right step, right away.
- Follow realistic timelines.
- Make the most of your time, energy, and attention.
- Avoid ‘information overload.’
- Prioritize changes that dramatically improve your quality of life.
- Create a mindset shift for sustainable, long-term effects.
- Disrupt and replace habits that keep you stuck.
Until I created the FLOW™ Formula Program, nobody had taken the best-of-the-best practices and strategically packaged them into a straightforward, step-by-step system that works for individuals and couples.
Let me show you how that plan came together...
STEP 1 of 4

STEP #1 Find Yourself
Timeline: 2 Weeks
GOALS:
Find what type of partner you are, learn how different partner types affect you (or how to best communicate with your current ones). This quiz immediately informs you of the reason for disconnection in your relationships without wasting weeks in traditional therapy spilling content that gets you nowhere.

You’ll receive complete clarity on what needs to change and feel empowered to take the next step toward securing the relationship you have always dreamed of.
Bad Strategies
- You follow general recommendations from self-help books without adapting them to your unique dynamic
- You make relationship changes without personal changes.
- You don’t know where to start
Smart Strategies
- You have a clinically-licensed mental health worker able to personally attend to your needs
- You find a system that guides you to grow personally, relationally and systemically
- Take our quiz as the very first step.
Bad Results
- The generalized changes amplify conflict because they don’t attend to the root cause of friction or energy imbalance in your system
- Despite relationship changes, personal energy imbalance remains which encourages regression, making those changes worthless.
- So, you don’t start.
Smart Results
- You receive holistic-healing { emotionally, physically, relationally, psychologically } that can be applied to heal the whole system.
- The growth in all 3 areas of life ensures long-term sustainable change
- It will show you where to start and what the problem areas are for you and your relationship(s).
How To Achieve Smart Results:
- Discover your Energy Flow™ Type in relationships
- Foundation Building and Education
- Guided energy Flow™ Type Reflection
- Learn how to Embrace your energy Flow™ Type
- Develop awareness of underlying Energy Blocks

Questions:
Q: How long is each session?
A: Each self-study virtual program contains multiple videos that vary in length but average around 20 minutes. In the program, group calls are 1 hour in length. Each of the 4 1-1 intensive sessions with Dr. Bathurst is 30 minutes. If you choose to add-on an additional 1-1 session with Dr. Bathurst, you may choose durations ranging from 30 minutes - 3 hours (fees are prorated based on length chosen).
Q: How long does it take?
A: 90 days to see dramatic results.

So, What’s The Point?
This is the step within the program solely focused on individual coaching and change processes for healing and positive energy building.
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STEP 2 of 4

STEP #2 Learn Patterns
Timeline: 3 weeks
GOALS:
Learn new interaction patterns so you can optimize your relationships. Create empathy and understanding for your relationship to release hopelessness and hesitation.
Amend the perspective that keeps you stuck in negative feedback loops and embrace a big-picture perspective that surges you with hope and motivation. Without a powerful mentality, there can be no power to your actions.

Complete a relationship timeline to compartmentalize past pain moments to embrace a future free of the past.
Bad Strategies
- You engage in months of traditional therapy model without experiencing significant progress in your personal or relationship goals.
- You change your habit but not your mind.
- You try to “forget” rather than “forgive” past wounds
Smart Strategies
- You invest in a hybrid coaching program that builds behavioral change while creating emotional change within.
- Learn how to release negative perspective immediately when it presents
- Apply techniques to compartmentalize past wounds.
Bad Results
- You feel drained of energy, finances, and tolerance toward your partner(s).
- Your negative perspective persists and resentment breeds.
- Your brain won’t let you and those wounds end up stuck.
Smart Results
- You heal from the inside out and discover that therapy / coaching doesn’t have to be a forever process to be effective.
- By preventing negative thinking, you create positive outcomes in your life and build positive emotion.
- Compartmentalizing allows your brain to let you forgive and move past old wounds.
How To Achieve Smart Results
- Mindfulness and Visualization activities for perspective shift
- Visual Relationship Timeline to compartmentalize the past and embrace the future
- Understand how to reform energy from negative to positive expressions
- Eliminate Intimacy Blocks
Questions:
Q: What’s special about this?
A: Implementing multiple modalities from different disciplines, we treat not just the whole body but the whole system. We get down to the core of why things aren’t working well rather than just placing a band-aid over a wound in the relationship. Core changes ensure sustainability, as long as all partners continue to work on their bond.
Q: Will I be in a group?
A: In the online program, monthly group calls are offered for support and there will be a community board available.
Q: How can I have the optimum experience?
A: Complete all of the recommendations given, prioritize your partner, trust in the process, practice a positive headspace.

So, What’s The Point?
This is the step within the program solely focused on individual coaching and change processes for healing and positive energy building.
Discovery Call:
Transform Me!Click the button above to book a short (free) demo with us. The whole process takes less than 2 minutes.
STEP 3 of 4

STEP #3 Observe & Apply
Timeline: 3 weeks
GOALS:
Observe yourself, and make simple changes so you can be a better partner. Easily learn to differentiate harmful & healthful behaviors, personalizing the steps of transformation to your unique dynamic.

Apply the crystal clear filter to practice dramatic changes to your daily interactions for a stable, deeply fulfilling connection. With the intensity of intimacy floods, you will find yourself inspired to give more to your partner now that we have ensured reciprocity.
Bad Strategies
- You believe that time will make your mistrust and resentment toward your partner’s betrayal go away
- You use time in therapy / coaching / quality time with one another to focus on what’s not working and what’s negative.
- Programs hyperfocus on the verbal part of communication between romantic partners.
Smart Strategies
- You have a combination of evidence-based models that compartmentalize past moments from your present relationship.
- Create a balance: constructively discussing what needs to change and practicing gratitude for what’s going well.
- Unlock patterns of communication that include non-verbal forms, as well,
Bad Results
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Your’e in self-protection mode, it looks for information to verify that your partner can’t be trusted. = Time, alone, will only make it worse.
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Your ‘mirror neurons’ feed that negativity to create more negativity, worsening the situation and pulling you away from intimacy.
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You miss the 80% of communication that is exchange through non-verbal cues
Smart Results
- You get a “fresh start” with your current relationship and a choice to release the emotional weight of past pain.
- You build positive energy to improve your mood and strengthen your attachment, which will help get you through the rough times.
- Dramatically improve emotional intelligence in your relationship, which is proven to increase satisfaction and longevity rates!
How To Achieve Smart Results:
- Stockpile Positive Energy experiences
- Energy Exchange Analogy for communication enhancement
- Consistency of Flow Behaviors
- Acknowledgement of change and accountability of behavior
- Intentions to Receive Flow
- Daily Gratitude practice improves mood of individuals
- Formal release of resentment

Questions:
Q: Have you been successful with infidelity?
A: Yes! As long as infidelity is NOT happening anymore, and both partners have committed to healing from it with the goal of remaining together, this program is a great fit for you.

So, What’s The Point?
This is the step within the program solely focused on couple’s coaching and change processes for observation of patterns, disruption of negative energy behaviors and communication building.
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STEP 4 of 4

STEP #4 Work Together
Timeline: 3 weeks
GOALS:
Work with your partner to create the perfect synergistic flow state that you both deserve. With individual growth enhanced, there are no barriers or distractions to relational reconnection.
Experience a rush of sensuous, filling energy exchange with your partner as you sit back and enjoy your newly created system of safety, security and stability.

With worries about your future together dissolved through the 4 Step FLOW™ Formula, all of your time and energy can be directly invested into intimacy building for a long-term relationship of satisfaction.
Bad Strategies
- You wait for a crisis to hit and then start traditional therapy 1x/ week.
- Focus only on changing behavior of each individual
- Make commitments based on the now without planning for the future.
Smart Strategies
- Before crisis, apply advanced communication with conflict resolution techniques to develop a formal relationship contract.
- Treat the whole system as a single working unit and develop new behaviors based on interactions of the individuals.
- Create a relationship contract along with a negotiation process to use in the future.
Bad Results
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Therapy becomes negatively linked and is too infrequent to be effective to manage the crisis after damage has already been done.
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Same unhealthy patterns exist in the larger system.
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Experience the exact same problems in a few years because you haven’t developed a flexible contract that is able to adapt to life changes.
Smart Results
- Before crisis, apply advanced communication with conflict resolution techniques to develop a formal relationship contract.
- Treat the whole system as a single working unit and develop new behaviors based on interactions of the individuals.
- Create a relationship contract along with a negotiation process to use in the future.
How To Achieve Smart Results:
- Formalize a relationship contract
- Celebrate your success to boost positivity and practice gratitude
- Develop personal rituals for Positive Energy Circulation
- Create a structure and schedule your check ins for the next year
- Create quality time blocks for the next year to set your relationship up for success

Questions:
Q: Is there any point in coming if we’ve already filed for divorce?
A: Success of the program necessitates 100% investment from all partners. If you have already filed for divorce AND have both verbally committed to wanting to reconcile, there is hope! Come join us.
Q: How far in advance do I need to plan this?
A: It depends on the flexibility of your other life responsibilities. This program is asks for a min. 8 hrs/ week; that’s part of what makes it so effective. For some, that requires speaking with a boss to set hard limits on overtime scheduling, arranging for a few hours of childcare each week, meal-prepping in advance, coordinating travel and vacation plans with your partner to ensure overlap of available time.
Q: Who is not a good fit for this program?
A: Any dynamic that has active abuse, infidelity or addiction.

So, What’s The Point?
This is the step in the program specifically focalized toward the whole system. Bringing all patterns and partners together, new habits are formed and a formal relationship contract is developed to create energetic synchrony.
Discovery Call:
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The 4 Magic Steps To Improving Intimacy

To recap, just follow these 4 steps to get Synergy in your Relationship.
Step 1 - Find Yourself
Most people try to achieve awareness of why their relationship is not fulfilling, sustainable or successful by spending hours spilling frustrations about one another in traditional couple’s therapy, and they get blame exchange, wasted hours, misdirection in what the core problem is, lack of clarity in how to fix the problem.
Instead, you will do the quiz to find clarity on what’s destroying your relationship and what needs to change to save it so you can immediately find results of what’s not working, work to feel deep empathy with one another and attack the problem areas together rather than apart for rapid change. Gain complete clarity on what’s destroying your relationship and what needs to change to save it.


Step 2 - Learn Patterns
Most people try to achieve growth or change in their relationship to reactivate their spark by making changes based on only 1 partner’s perspective. Using general workbooks or non-specific self-help seminars, they get minimal progress or worsening conflict.
Instead, this step offers you specific instructions for HOW to healthily contribute in your relationship, have accountability as a partner and create measurable goals that are specific to the core issues in your dynamic so you can quickly eliminate pain moments, and work together to create a “new normal” that is deeply intimate.
The specificity of this change process and the simple structure in how to change formulates hopefulness for your future together (we will need this to create healthy reconnection in the next 2 steps). This knowledge-base enables you to SUSTAIN a harmonious relationship. Learning patterns and implementing personal change is the first step toward systems health.
Step 3 - Observe & Apply
Most people try to achieve individual growth for relational enhancement through self reflection, self-help books and traditional therapy, but they get little results because there is a lack of behavioral change plus awareness. Knowledge without application is powerless.
In step 3, you will embrace personalized recommendations of change and measurable goals, rehabituating new ways of interacting in your relationship. You will also learn how to manifest your desired future, and use attunement and curiosity to respond best to your partner so you can quickly accomplish hopefulness about your relationship, positive perspective of your partner, and experience change that is real and sustainable.
With this structured program that teaches you how to be the best partner you can be, creating new habits of connection, you are guaranteed to experience an AMAZING TRANSFORMATION, because growth of a relationship starts with the health of each individual within it.


Step 4 - Work Together
Most people try to achieve synergistic flow, deepened meaning of their shared life and intense intimacy bonds by seeing a couple’s therapist who only focuses on communication reform and stopping sources of betrayal. Usually, they are able to heal their pain (sometimes) but NOT reignite their spark. Normalcy, then becomes boredom or awkwardness.
In Step 4, you will rediscover your spark along with your energy, mentality, priority and perspective of your relationship. Change how you EXIST and EXPERIENCE being together so you can quickly accomplish long-lasting synergy based off of mutual love, respect and passion.
Explore a new FLOW™ state together. Follow these steps to release the pain of the past, and to create a sustainable and fulfilling state of synergy with all 8 forms of intimacy!
The average struggling partner focuses on external things like self-help books, waiting for ‘time to heal’ and seeking traditional therapy that focuses on one area of the relationship.
The truth is that you need a holistic and out-of-the-box therapy model for complete transformation.
My 4 Step FLOW™ Formula gets to the root of the problem as to WHY you’re not able to secure genuine and long-lasting connection. We focus on 8 forms of intimacy and implement sex therapy, marital therapy, life coaching, integrative medicine to reform all energy contributions into fulfilling experiences.
If I offered you 80% improvement in ALL areas of your relationship in 90 Days ...would you take me up on it?
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Sure, There Are Other Options Out There…

Option 1: Figure it out on your own.
You probably wouldn’t be here if this was working for you. However, I managed to do it; so you can too. It’ll take years off of your life (lol), but with blogs and YouTube it’s not impossible. The biggest challenge is piecing together a strategy that works; there’s a ton of conflicting, obsolete, and unproven info out there.


Option 2: Traditional Therapy
It’s a toss up. There are some amazing therapists out there (I like to think I am one of them!) Like all other professions, there are some very poor ones. Plus, the limitations of insurance payouts capping sessions at around 1 hour per week for the average couple just doesn’t match with what actually gets results in a rapid and long-lasting way.
Option 3: Purchase cheaper courses
There’s a reason they are cheaper. Here is a breakdown for my program’s fee and why anyone charging less means they aren’t keeping up with the clinical trainings, field competencies or program updates needed to make it worth your money: annual license and membership fees, core competency and education to remain up to date in fields of study, business overhead, program manager to ensure your questions and problems are being addressed as promptly as possible, new updates or trainings are added as they become available, technology advancements for visual and auditory clarity, private community boards and monitored calls to ensure confidentiality, etc.


Option 4: Purchase an in-person retreat or live event
If it’s a personal retreat, I am in full support! This course is actually made as a foundational stage for our in-person advanced retreat. For many, in-person retreats are just not financially feasible. Live events / seminars are not always as effective. Sometimes this means a large auditorium reading off of a powerpoint with minimal to no personal interaction with the presenter. If that’s the case, this program 100% gives you more personalized attention.
Option 5: Toss in the towel.
In 2022, the average divorce cost $26,300. If you feel like your marriage has already started dissolving and that is why you’re looking at this site right now… the proven guarantee and the nominal fee of this program in comparison to the average fee of divorce is well worth it. You just have to decide if your relationship is worth the investment.


Option 6: The Smartest Option
Leverage our proven, step-by-step program complete with the precise systems, personalized coaching, and supportive community you need to feel floods of energy in all 8 forms of intimacy.
With Bathurst Family Therapy’s FLOW™ Formula Program, you get all the confidence, support and processes to discover the person, partner and relationship that you dream of. You know what you want, let us help you make that a reality.
Discovery Call:
Transform Me!Click the button above to book a short demo with us. The whole process takes less than 2 minutes.
Again, this is for anyone with awareness, motivation, investment toward their future who wants a life filled with joy and energetic passion.
- Individuals who want…
- to improve their mental health
- to improve themselves as a partner
- to learn relationship patterns to become healthier
- education on relationship contracts, resentment repair
- Partners who want (couples or multi-person)…
- to level-up their relationship
- to transition into consensual non-monogamy
- to improve communication, intimacy, connection
- to enhance sexual fulfillment
- Those who are 100% invested in their own change process
- Clients looking for a mix of individual AND couple coaching
- Clients prepared for discomfort, challenge and accountability
- Anyone looking to enhance their quality of life and relationship
To get results out of the FLOW™ Formula Program, you must be:
- A partner that’s able to accept accountability
- Prioritizes future happiness (and current change) more than current discomfort (and future unhappiness)
- Able to receive constructive feedback from others, despite their position, gender, race or sex
- Receptive to alternative ideas and philosophies. Rigid mindsets will combat this programming and become problematic.
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Does It Really Work?
Over 2,738+ clients have leveraged our system to reconnect, advance their levels of intimacy and rediscover what life with passion and adventure can really feel like. Be one of the first to access the newest, hybrid version!
The Crawley’s overcame 20 years of resentment, low libido, mistrust, disrespect:
Paul C. and his wife were frantically trying to salvage their marriage after an infidelity. When we first started the healing process, they were stuck in a place of intense emotional pain, infrequent sex, and emotional detachment.
After a few short months, the “Passion was back!” and their marriage was “stronger than before.” We need to learn from past pain moments and use the negative energy that they created to form positive connections in the present. An instance of betrayal does not have to destroy your relationship forever.
“My wife and I were in a dark place for several months and were ripping apart at the seams. Dr. Bathurst not only helped us salvage the sinking ship, but our marriage is now better than it has ever been.”
- Paul C.


Stacie overcame painful sex and low libido from psychological barriers, reconnected intimacy and respect for her partner:
Stacie L. was feeling physically and sexually disconnected to her boyfriend. Although connected in other areas of the relationship, the incompatibilities of sexual style or preferences in the bedroom left the couple with anxiety that disrupted libido, and created miscommunication in the bedroom.
Once we identified the psychological reasons for intimacy blocks, we attended to the root cause with the coupledom and created other means of affection exchange that offered more natural energy flow between the couple.
“I can now positively embrace my partner’s sexual interest. I feel a fun flow with them during sex and a healthy headspace from my mindfulness practice.”
- Stacie L.
Ryan overcame toxic communication and healthy contracting in their polyamorous relationship, achieveing synergy and equality:
Ryan Y. and their two partners were experiencing extensive communication breakdowns in the polycule dynamic. When they first entered the relational coaching space, the structure was struggling to bounce back from frequent arguments and negative emotional exchange from all parties, experiences of jealousy, and negative assumptions about partner’s intention of behavior.
We prioritized resolution in communication breakdown to stop the buildup of active resentment sources, began creating positive intimacy experiences beyond just sexual intimacy for a more wholistic fulfillment in the romantic structure, and clarified each partner’s expectations. Working with each individual to create a founded perspective that challenged negative assumptions, we treated the WHOLE system, not just one part.
“We’re Married now!”
- Ryan Y

Discovery Call:
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Here's What Happens When You Join Today:

✓ Therapeutic Tools for a Lifetime:
- Mindfulness and Visualization gives you mental control
- Release burdens of the past
- Don’t just survive, THRIVE.
- Healthy mindset leads to physical well-being. Live healthier and pain-free (or less)


✓ Relationship Reconnection:
- Experience novelty and exploration of relationship styles
- Develop effective communication skills
- Create a shared future together
- Manage systems better to help you in other areas of life
- Travel and find adventure together
- Sexual ecstacy
✓ Self-Love and Happiness:
- Eliminate blockages to personal growth
- Create the life that you want
- Align with positive, ambitious individuals
- Find your purpose in life
- Live with pride and integrity
- No more FOMO
- Get back your zest for life

Give us 3 months. Your entire LIFE will be transformed…
*Results are dependent on what you put into the process.
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You Deserve Relationship Reconnection:
Introducing:
The FLOW™ Formula
The only step-by-step system to build Intimacy and create long-lasting relationships.


You feel like life and relationships can feel more fulfilling and more energetic. You want to experience that flood of energy and to find balance in your relationships. To do so, you need the therapeutic tools to advance your mindset, communication and intimacy to the next level.
There’s just one thing holding you back: TIME.
It’s a finite resource. After all, the one thing money can’t buy is time.
You need the right plan, process, and people in your corner to keep you focused, motivated, and moving. Don’t waste one more second on the wrong things or, even worse, on doing nothing, because you and your relationship deserve better.
What It Is:
Access the same step-by-step system that has helped 2,738+ of others all over the world find a perfect state of SYNERGY with their partner(s) … a trusted Therapist / Coach to hold your hand and hold you accountable every step of the way … and a welcoming community of like-minded people to support you on this life-changing journey.
What It Comes With:
Get 3 proven ‘tools’:
- FLOW™ Formula - Our step-by-step system shows you what to do and how to do it, revealing every tip, trick, and shortcut along the way. All you have to do is follow along and take action.
- Expert Coaching & Support - Get guidance whenever you need it with an expert Therapist / Coach who is excited to help you and hold your hand every step of the way.
- Motivation & Accountability - Our community is here to ensure you are able to get comfortable confronting your deepest fears, overcoming your traumas, and embracing vulnerability to step into a connective space with your partner(s).
Discovery Call:
Transform Me!Click the button above to book a short demo with us. The whole process takes less than 2 minutes.
TOOL 1 - Step-by-Step FLOW™ Formula Program
Your 1st tool is our proven, step-by-step system. It’s easy to follow and it's built to generate rapid results.
Ready To See Serious Progress?
Stop thinking—start doing.
If you’ve never gotten started because you don’t know what to do (or how to do it) … if you’re worried more about the financial investment than the work … or if other DIY workbooks, coaches, relationship seminars, and retreats have left you disappointed and confused, FLOW™ Formula is tailor-made for you.
Rest assured we’ve got you covered with a complete, crystal-clear roadmap, and the support you need every step of the way.
Here’s just a partial list of what you get when you enroll today:
- Bite-Sized Instructional Videos make every action step simple and clear. You’re never overwhelmed or wasting time listening to fluff.
- Easy-to-Follow Staged Learning Model so you check off the right steps in the right order—never getting lost or confused along the way.
- Personalized Project Management Portal to keep you organized and on track so you never have to wonder where you left off
- Toolbox Kit - Therapeutic handouts, activities, lists of quality time experiences, structured therapy exercises, communication scripts, at-home mailed kits with surprise gifts and DIY activities. With this at-home toolbox, your relationship will light-up with spark!
- Visual Diagrams - Help complex concepts necessary for growth to immediately sink in using pre-structured, simplified visuals for your benefit. Print them, keep them, let them guide you in continued growth!
- Full access to video tutorials - We know life is busy for you! That’s why when you purchase this program, you have complete access to the videos for therapeutic benefit! Invest your energy into applying the knowledge gained rather than storing it. We will store it for you. :)
- Biweekly Group Zoom Calls w/ Dr. Bathurst - Join a bi-weekly group video session to really immerse yourself into the experience and practice. Your group will always be with other participants working on the same step of the program. To ensure everyone has a space to ask questions and gain something from the call, groups will always be a MAXIMUM of 10 couples.
- 24/7 Community Support - Ever feel lonely or lost finishing a task? Not here! With a private community across the globe working to support one another, you will always have a space to connect and be heard… even if that thought pops in at 3:00 am.
- 1-1 Intensives w/ Dr. Bathurst - Get down and personal with world-renowned Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Life Coach and Holistic Healer. These intensive strategy sessions are deeply focused and personalized to prepare you for success in post-program completion. You’ll leave feeling grounded and ready for your independent practice!
- Superior Accountability - Let’s be real, it’s crazy hard to hold yourself accountable and stick to the course. That’s why you get regular check-ins with your accountability coach on weeks when there is not a group zoom call.
- Intimacy Expansion – When you think Intiimacy, you think Sex. But what about the other 7 forms that are critical to energetic connection?! Don’t worry. We have you covered. Dive deep into the expansive realm of intimacy and find the best flow together.
Always Updated!
We regularly roll out enhancements in response to our client’s needs. If you find anything confusing or overwhelming along the way, we’ll coach you through it and refine it for the future.

TOOL 2 - Expert Therapist / Coaching & Support
Why do most clients never complete therapy, let alone achieve the goals they set out from the experience? They don’t have the scaffolding around them to make the journey successful,
It’s hard to feel motivated for change and see success when you feel like a single sheep in the herd of a therapist’s caseload. It’s every client’s worst nightmare to go into a couple’s coaching session and come out worse than they went in.
That’s why you get me and my team by your side. We all have intimate knowledge of the dos and don’ts of relationship coaching, personal growth and empowerment, the psychology of change and basics of task management. We pride ourselves on giving you all the world-class guidance and support you could need from the second you enroll in FLOW™ Formula.
My Team Will:
- Keep you focused on the right tasks at the right time, so you never get distracted or lost.
- Hold you accountable and push you to accomplish personal and relational goals you previously thought were impossible.
- Give you feedback, guidance, and support whenever you need it.
Calls Feature:
- Small Laser-Coaching Groups - Never get lost in a sea of people.
- Deeply Personalized 1-1 Sessions - Not 1, but 4, coaching sessions to ensure we give attention to your needs, struggles and celebrations.
- Consistent LIVE Call Times - So you never forget and can schedule in advance.
- Accessible Timeslots - So you don’t have to get up at 2:45am to hop on a call.
- Email access - Fire off an email and get answers fast.
- All sessions recorded - Can’t attend live? Click a link to catch the recording.
- Trello board - Your own visual diagram that organizes program tasks, simplifies what’s coming up and helps you stay “on it”.
5 Touchpoints Of Full Support
You get a full suite of critical touchpoints, including:

1. Orientation Session
As soon as you join us, you’ll jump on an Orientation session. We ensure you know exactly where to start, and you get setup for success from your first day onward!
By the end of the session, you’ll have a personalized ‘Action Plan’ in place and all the motivation, clarity, and confidence in the world to start
revitalizing energy, deepening intimacy and reconnecting romance.

2. Coaching Group Calls
Every other week you’ll be invited to a Group Coaching Call led by your FLOW™ Formula Coach. This is your opportunity to get your work reviewed by your coach (and your community), as well as get instant feedback and advice that you can apply immediately. These calls are designed to get you out of your own head and move toward measurable results.

3. Active Lesson Comments
There’s nothing worse than having a question on an assignment that stops your progress. That’s why under every video lesson you can ask us questions and we’ll reply with fast answers. This assures you can speed through the system with total confidence and clarity.

4. 1-on-1 Intensive Sessions
At the end of each of the 4 FLOW™ Steps, you will have a 30-minute 1-on-1 Intensive session with Dr. Stephanie Bathurst. These calls give you personalized feedback from world-renowned clinician, healer and sexologist to apply our proven system to your unique dynamic. Anything hindering your progress will be worked out together with Dr. Bathurst and you’ll leave feeling completely seen, heard, and attended to at the end of each of these 4 milestone calls. Plus, you get a recording of every call so you’re 100% clear, confident, and motivated to keep pushing ahead.

5. Private VIP Email Access & Community Board
Get VIP email access to your FLOW™ Formula Coach to get feedback and advice straight to your inbox (we guarantee a 24-hour turnaround during normal business hours M-Th). Think it’s a question you want to share with the community? Send it through the Kajabi private community board. We’ll still keep our promise of a 24-hour turnaround during normal business hours AND your community can add their juicy insight, too.
TOOL 3 - DIY Home Kits
We do more than just provide you with educational videos, professional coaching sessions, community interaction and accountability. You get physical kits mailed to you directly at home that contain surprise gifts, therapeutic activities, reconnection experiences and FLOW™ gear to wear personal growth in style. No other program offers you the convenience of online classes, personalization of live coaching and effectiveness of physical DIY toolboxes at home.
Your Kits include:
- Surprise Date Night Activity
- Welcome Kit DIY Therapeutic Toolbox
- Pre-set list of activities with instructions, materials, playlists
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True Intimacy Seekers Don’t Give Up

You’re here for a reason ... You know you deserve to live a life filled with passion … Which is why your inner voice has kept you glued to this page.
Now’s the moment of truth: Are you going to make this move or are you going to make excuses? Are you going to do whatever it takes so you can get the relationship and intimacy you deserve? Will you be the change you want to see in your life? The choice is yours.
Don’t wait. Don’t overthink it. Don’t procrastinate.
This could be the moment you look back on and say that’s when everything changed for the better.
GET ACCESS TO THE SAME SYSTEM OTHERS HAVE PAID UP TO $5,000 FOR:
- The FLOW™ Formula: 4-Step Model to Intimacy Building- Get the step-by-step system to re-energize yourself, rebalance your relationship and synchronize your romantic connection in record time. This makes the entire coaching process from start to finish as simple, smooth, and stress-free as possible. (Value $10,500)
- FLOW™ Videos: Every Action Step Includes a Video Walkthrough - Sick and tired of courses that tell you what to do, but not how to do it? Every step includes a bite-sized training video walking you through exactly what you need to do to move forward. Our FLOW™ Videos make it easy to execute and nearly impossible to fail. 32 therapeutic videos given to you in a way that is easily applied but with the value of 32 full coaching sessions
- Personal Progress Portal: Your Very Own Trello Board - Don’t lose time trying to figure out where you left off or piecing together your next steps. Get an instant snapshot of your progress thanks to your personalized progress portal you can access anytime, anywhere. In other words, it’s a small enhancement that makes a huge difference! Some even pay a personal life coach to do this work for them but we’ve already set things up for you.
- Insider Access: Communicate With Your Coach ‘Under the Hood’ - Ever have a question pop up when you’re in the middle of a video? Wait around and you'll lose that thought. No need to pause, rewind, open another tab, or restart. You get insider access to a FLOW™-only “forum” underneath each video that allows you to post your question on the spot and get quick answers from our Coaches; plus, you can see what others have asked—and answered.
- Express Onboarding Orientation: Sprint Through The Start Line - Chomping at the bit to get going? We’re just as excited as you are. The second you join, you’ll instantly unlock everything you need to get started. Plus, you’ll schedule your Express Onboarding Orientation to get a personalized plan of attack from our Coaches. If you have any questions, we’ll answer them in your onboarding orientation so there’s nothing stopping you from getting started.
- Private Biweekly Group Calls: Connect and Collaborate - Want extra access to our Therapist / Coaches? You got it! This is your opportunity to connect deeper with your guides (and community) on bigger projects and more complex tasks that call for extra help from the experts. We used to charge for these calls as upgrades—now we’ve included them as part of your membership when you enroll today. (Value $5,000/yr)
- Private 1-on-1 Intensive Calls: Private Conversations With Dr. Bathurst - The group is great—but sometimes you need individual attention. We get that. Get laser-coaching on achieving specific steps within the System during your 1-on-1 milestone calls. Almost every call leads to a breakthrough! ($300 value per call)
- Private VIP Chat: Skip the Line to Chat With Your Coach: Get VIP email access to your Coach to get feedback and advice straight to your inbox. (Value $5,000/yr)
- Relationship Contract, Done With You - Developing emotional awareness and refining communication skills are just some of the foundational building blocks that we work on in earlier steps of the Formula to work up toward a formal Relationship Contract. In Step 4, you will complete a Relationship Contract from start to finish with the complete support and guidance from licensed clinician and coach, Dr. Bathurst. Afterward, you’ll be your own relationship healer and able to handle things on your own from hereon out.
We did the math—and this is a total no-brainer. The bottom line is you get far more for far less. Instead of paying $31,700, you get all of the above for a fraction of what you’d expect to pay.
This is the quickest, simplest, and most cost-effective way to (re)build yourself as a partner and your relationship for deeper bonds, better sex and a happier you for years to come. Plus, this is one of few investments in life that pays for itself over and over again. A happier, more fulfilled you, statistically shows that you will be more productive, make more money, have stronger friendships, have better physical health, and live longer. The dividends keep on paying.
Ready to do this? Don’t wait. The price won’t be this low forever. Your future self will look back on this moment and regret it if you miss out now and have to pay more to get less later.
Click the ‘Transform Me!’ button to schedule a call with our team to complete your application and receive pricing information.
Discovery Call:
Transform Me!Click the button above to book a short demo with us. The whole process takes less than 2 minutes.
Here’s What Happens As Soon As You Hit
The ‘Transform Me!’ Button:


HIT "TRANSFORM ME" BUTTON

ANSWER QUESTIONS

BOOK CALL TIME
Because we want to make sure this is the right fit for you and us (this isn’t a hands-off course or coaching program that collects your money then leaves you hanging), schedule your complimentary discovery call with a coach.
We’ll get to know you and your relationship(s), answer your questions, and complete your enrollment. Before you spend a dime, we’ll talk through your needs and suggest the package that suits you best. And if you don’t want to enroll on the call, there’s no pressure to do so. You’ll be armed with the information you need to make a decision.
If you’re serious about reclaiming energy back in your life and living passionately, follow these simple steps now:
1) Tap "Transform Me!": This will send you to your FLOW™ application (we screen all clients to ensure we’re the right fit for each other)
2) Complete Your Application: It takes about 2 minutes and you can do it all from your phone.
3) Pick Your Call Time: Pick a time that works best for you.
4) Show Up: Don’t stress—we'll send you text and email reminders. The goal is to ensure you leave informed and empowered.
5) Enroll: As we learn more about you during our call, we'll give you our honest recommendation. Our packages are fully customizable to your needs.
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When You Enroll, Here’s What Happens:


Get Instant Access
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Book Your Orientation Session
This is going to get you fired up and crystal clear on your next steps!

Get Your Personal Action Plan
Your Coach will craft a custom plan to cover your first 30 days in FLOW™. More to come from there!

Check In Monthly
Accountability is the glue that bonds commitment to results. To ensure you stay committed and get results, you and your coach will huddle up at least once a month to discuss your progress and next steps.
Discovery Call:
Transform Me!Click the button above to book a short demo with us. The whole process takes less than 2 minutes.
What’s It Costing You To Not Follow A Proven Plan

If you’re hesitant to make decisions…
If you secretly know you’re procrastinating…
Or if you’re all talk and no action…
Ask yourself this:
How much longer will you and your relationship continue to manage disappointment, dissatisfaction and dysfunction?
At some point, we all hit a point of no return. Once it’s reached, you / your partner may not be able to come back.
We don’t share this as a scare tactic—we say it to motivate you toward positive change. You deserve more out of life.
Remember, nobody’s going to do this for you. You have to make the decision to go all-in.
Don’t wait for time to make it better… because time itself does not do that. WE are the ones that make things better.
And our program is the perfect solution that can help you navigate how.
So what’s it going to be? A life of energy, passion, connection, adventure, balance, fulfillment, purpose? Or one of regret and repeat mistakes?
The power to make life profoundly better is within you. If you’re still on the fence, we encourage you to take a moment to reflect before you make a decision. After all, this could be the moment you look back on and say that’s when everything changed for the better.

Waiting Costs You Time
Rekindling the flame and rediscovering yourself within your relationship is a long game. The sooner you start, the sooner you get results. Your quality of life shouldn’t be pushed off—don’t you agree? Act fast to begin building a better tomorrow today.
Waiting Costs You Energy
The more damage is done and the more resentment is built now, the more work you have and the more time you need to invest to repair it later. Which means, the longer you wait before starting this program, the longer those unhealthy dynamics are at play and the more your future self has to give toward repairing that damage later on. Give them a break and start now.


Waiting Costs You Resources
We know a lot of the hesitation for jumping into FLOW™ is financial. But there’s risk to not jumping in, too. The average divorce in 2022 cost $26,300 per person, as reported in USA Today. The cost of this program that gives you a lifetime of information and self-empowerment pales in comparison to the whopping $23k of an average divorce, which only increases in probability the longer you let things stagnate the way they have been. So run those numbers again and see if they seem worth it now that you think about the other side.
Waiting Costs You Choice
Right now, you have the means to invest in yourself and, perhaps, a relationship that is still present and engaging (albeit imperfect). But that won’t be the case forever. Indecision is just as much a choice as decision and relationships can only handle so much stress before they crumble at the core. Take action now when you still have the choice to make things better and experience the positive outcome from that choice.

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You’re Backed By A Risk-Free Guarantee:
If We Don’t Deliver On Our Promises, You Don’t Pay A Dime.


How does our risk-free guarantee work?
Simple.
If you complete all the steps, participate in all lessons, complete and submit all worksheets, attend all calls, and you don’t see vast improvements in emotional connection, positive perspective about your partner, increased affection/ desires, I’ll personally give you extra 1-on-1 sessions until you get results. If after completing all that work, you still don’t see results, then I will issue you a prompt and courteous return of your investment so that you may use those funds for a program that is a better fit for you.
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To Recap, Here’s Everything You Get
When You Join Today…and then some!

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Instant Access to FLOW™ Formula Instructional Videos Program make every action step simple and achievable (Value $10,000)
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Personalized Project Management Portal to keep you organized and on track so you never have to wonder where you left off. (Value $500)
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At-home DIY Toolbox - Therapeutic handouts and activities, lists of quality time experiences, structured exercises, visual diagrams, communication scripts, surprise gifts (Value $500)
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Private Biweekly Group Calls- Join a bi-weekly group video session to really immerse yourself into the experience and practice. Groups will always be a MAXIMUM of 10 couples. (Value $5,000/ yr)
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24/7 Community Support - With a private community across the globe working to support one another, you will always have a space to connect and be heard. (Value $5,000)
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4 1-on-1 Intensives with Dr. Bathurst - Get down and personal with world-renowned Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Life Coach and Holistic Healer. (Value $300 per call)
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Superior Accountability - Regular check-ins with your accountability coach on weeks when there is not a group call. (Value $5,000)
Total Value: $31,700
Ready to do this? Click below to schedule your call now!
Discovery Call:
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Frequently Asked Questions

Q: How do I know if this is for me?
Q: What types of person does the FLOW™ Formula work for?
Q: What’s special about this?
Q: How long does it take?
Q: Are you open all year round?
Q: What is the price?
Q: Where are you located?
Q: Will I be in a group?
Q: What is your success rate? How long will it take for us to fix our marriage?
Q: How can I have the optimum experience?
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Q: How far in advance do I need to plan this?
Q: Is there any point in coming if we’ve already filed for divorce?
Q: Do you take insurance?
Q: How long is each session?
Q: Have you been successful with infidelity?
Q: Who is not a good fit for this program?
Q: What if it’s not working for me?
Q: Is the program up to date?
Q: I am not tech savvy...will that be an issue?
Q: I’m scared to enroll...it’s a big decision!
Discovery Call:
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